Dr. Ingersoll's Posts

Growing older is something every human being experiences. And yet, when our bodies begin changing in midlife, it can sometimes feel as though we have entered unfamiliar territory. Energy may change. Sleep may change. Hormones change. Sexual desire may change. Our bodies may look or feel different. And sometimes, seemingly out of nowhere, much bigger questions begin surfacing: Who am I at this stage of my life? Am I happy? Does my relationship still fulfill me? Am I doing some

Have you ever looked at the person you love, or someone you once loved, and wondered: Why them? Out of all the people we meet throughout our lives, why are we drawn to certain people and not others? Why does someone occasionally feel familiar almost immediately? And why do we sometimes find ourselves attracted to the same “type” again and again? The process of choosing a romantic partner, often called mate selection, is far more complex than simply finding someone attractive

I don’t think that everyone is bisexual, and I know for certain that bisexuality does indeed exist. However, I do agree with the growing volume of research that asserts that the majority of human beings are bisexual to some degree, with individuals being purely attracted to the opposite sex or purely to the same sex being the true sexual minorities (Epstein, 2012; Klein & Reinhardt, 1993; Laumann, 1994). And when I refer to the term bisexuality, I’m defining it as a sexual or

As someone who has spent nearly 3 decades with my partner, who I consider my “true love” and soulmate, I know for a fact that true love...

Although sexual activity is one of the most natural aspects of being human and sexual dysfunction can affect a significant amount of the...